A few days ago, I had an interesting conversation with a certified “Soft Babe” and I’d like to share it with you so grab your notes and jot things down, I bet you read that in Josh2funny’s voice, lol.
Hi stranger, nice to meet you. My name is Arin, a soft babe through and through, you’re officially welcome to my corner. I am a lifestyle/travel influencer, content creator and the light of the world. To me, life is a movie, and our experiences make up the scenes of the movie. Since I learnt that, I make the best memories and scenes out of every moment of my life.
As an ambassador for soft life and premium enjoyment, I’d like to share with you a few tips that have helped me make the best of my life, earn well, live in comfort and be happy, so listen up;
- Define What’s Important & Have A Vision Board – The first step to a stress-free life is to determine what’s truly important to you and focus on it. This gives you a sense of direction and having a vision board helps you visualize it and act precisely.
- Prioritize Selfcare & Rest – I always say to my community that Selfcare is simply “to put yourself first”. The serums and lotions are amazing, but a sound mind is better. Journal, get therapy, eat right, take your vitamins and sleep!!
- Surround Yourself with A Positive Support System – You’d be surprised at how the quality of your life improves by being surrounded by good people and having a support system that ensures you have access to resources that help you grow in desired areas of life or simply just show up when you need them.
- Have Routines That Eliminate Stress – Stress is almost inevitable when you don’t have a routine that guides your day-to-day activities. You might find yourself with an overwhelming schedule frequently. There’s nothing soft or comforting about this.
- Set Boundaries & Stay Within Your Control Circle – Ever heard of the saying “don’t stress over what you can’t change”? Yea, whatever you can’t change or fix is outside of your control circle. You must learn to focus on what’s within that circle; for instance, your emotions, thoughts, actions, etc. Setting boundaries is a good action step to executing this.
- Create Memories & Document Them – In my early years of creating content, I would often feel shy about videoing myself or recording with my camera generally. I found that the more I watched my videos, the more I wanted to film those moments. Let loose, enjoy your hobbies, document those moments and watch yourself delve into a softer version of your life.
Phew, Okay I’m done! I bet you were waiting for me to say live your best life, catch flights not feelings, lol. That’s important too but you need structure for that to happen and these steps help you create the best practical structure. So, get to work and prep yourself for the best experiences. You can start here.